The complexity of reality
Sometimes you need to blog things in order to fully understand the complexity of it's reality. You need to see the words reflected back at you. Take them in. Absorb them in your psyche. Have your heart and your soul assimilate the barbed wire edges of them. You're going to bleed a little. It's going to hurt alot, but you will survive. You always do.
It's over. Deal with it. Move on.
I turn 36 on Sunday and like all my birthdays I see it as a fresh start. A new chapter. Another adventure. My birthday present to myself is going to be a two week holiday in Sweden visiting one of my closest friends and a three day stopover in balmy Istanbul to take in the sites and thaw out a little. I hope to return, refreshed and a little more whole than when I left.
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Flutts
Happy Happy for Sunday.
Hope it's a good as well as fresh start.
I promise that it will be worth waiting for a person who loves and respects you for YOU and not for fulfilling a whole lot of roles and expectations...
Have an excellent trip and give us one of your lovely photo blogs when you get back ok?
'Kay Marijayn
Thanks I intend to have a great one. Loads of champers and zero expectations.
Will be sure to take loads of photos for the blog.
Fluts
MAN OH MAN. Do i know this place. Intimately. Where the balance of what you love and what you can live with is so out, you can only walk away.
Glad you're getting to go and explore and spend time with people who care about you.
Eish.
Dolce
Spot on. Know that place very well. Thanks lady.
Flutts
Have a good break. Amazing how everything regains perspective when you put a bit of distance between you and your worries.
Thanks Tarnished
I tried that last year but it seems "you can take it with you". Ag, I know what you mean. Perspective is relative and distance is good.
Fluts
Strength to you woman and have an absolutely MAGIC holiday. Bring back lots of pictures, stories and hot Turkish men.
Thanks.
I will Semi
Lots of pictures of hot Turkish men just for you!
I won't be chasing any of them around though. Think I'll take a break from the other specie for a while.
Fluts
Cool. Thanx for the Turkish men.
If ever you want to experiment with the species of the same kind, let me know ;)
Fluts
Anytime you want me to kick him in the bollocks, just let me know. I'm a can-do kind of girl. Capische?
Clarebear
I can just see you in your I'm blogging this T-shirt, tool belt strapped around your waist, slung low and a 'don't-fuck-with-me' haka come kungfu pose. You rock.
Much appreciated poppet.
Flutsy
Sorry to hear that.
But i have to say - that is a beautiful philosophy. Much respect. You rock.
And you're gonna have an awesome holiday.
Flutts as Nos would say
This “man” deserves to die
A slow and painful death.
I want to rip out his nails
With a pair of pliers.
I want to squeeze his ball in a vise
Until they pop.
I want to cut off his “manhood”
Bit by bit and make him eat
Each piece.
I want to burn his body with white hot coals
So that he can smell his own
Flesh burning.
I want to cut out his tongue
and shove it up his ass.
With a red hot poker.
I want to tear out one eye and
Let it hang on his cheek
Leaving the other eye so he can see
What I’m going to do next.
I want to tear little bits of skin and flesh
From his body.
I want him to suffer
Immeasurably
Like he made our Flutter suffer.
And all this
Because Flutts is hot! Doos
Have a great birthday and a wonderful trip!
Oh my Vaps
I feel better already!
Thanks honey, I will. Have a champagne brunch planned for Sunday and I will have an awesome trip.
yeah Vappie
there's that old saying:
he who hurts the Flut shall live nutless henceforth
(well its only about 30 seconds old but still)
Thank you Dexiekins
I like the sound of that. A nutless wonder.... heeheeeheee...
Fluts
You go do whatever you need to do for you. Go have fun. "me time" with friends cures almost all that ails you/worries you. Happy birthday for Sunday. Take some photo's and we expect a great post from you when you get back.*MWAH-HUG*
Will do Nos
And thanks. Fortunately, I am blessed with so many wonderful friends.
Fluts.
Sorry to hear that. But I'm with you on the birthday idea. New adventures and that. Have a great birthday. And that Sweden trip sounds great. And Istanbul?! I'm jealous. Very, very jealous. How long are you in Turkey for? Try to get to Capedocia (sp) instead. It will blow your mind.
Ramona
Thanks. Just doing a short stopover in Istanbul so just doing city highlights Hagia Sofia, Blue Mosque etc. Love to see Capedocia - studied alota bout it at varsity. Maybe next time.
Travel! Great
Sweden - a nerdy choice...
still, each to his own 'ey!
Arbie
Staying with friends so free food and accomodation for two weeks. A beer cost between R80 and R150. Besides, I want to go to the Arctic circle and see the northern lights.
OKAY! Yeah - Northern Lights and Ice Hotel (wrong time of year?)
COOL DARL!
Was juuuuuuuust kidding! Never been to Sweden so wouldn't know, see!